Regards this
"This really is a one trick unit, not really as great as I was hoping."
It won't impress by itself but don't give up yet.
It's folly to expect tone nirvana from just one magic box, maybe Try a tone circuit after the cab sim as well as a few dirt pedals in front.
You use these things to build your tone. I would suggest you get hold of some simulation program to help you see just how the response curve alters as it passes through a circuit.
If you want you are welcome to some of my circuit schematics to give you ideas.
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Re this;
"But I do like the compressor, just want to change it so it does not change the tone so much. Any thoughts on what to change in the circuit to make it a clean compressor?"
Regards comp circuits, If it's changing the tone a lot then something is wrong, without the circuit in front of me tiss impossible to say. Look if you want crystal clear comp you need studio gear. Frankly IME they don't work for R&R guitar.
I think it's safe to say that Optical compressors seem to suit guitar as they are slower.
I've used quite a few comp pedals and even the one optical unit I used was too aggressive.
I use "Mictesters" wonderful optical compressor circuit and no it's not clean which is why I love it cause it just adds that magical little bit of rattle reminiscent of the old valve amps I once used. Even clean they had a little grit when you dig in.
As I mentioned compression in front is defeating the whole point of it use.
The reason why I use comp close to the End of the pedal chain is it keep the dirt pedals from going stupid loud.
It keeps your SPL within a more controllable range. You still get a lift in loudness when you engage your distortion but much more controlled. I play live gigs and I have to have full control of my levels. So My Pedal board is set and forget and I just press a button when needed.
Re the Fet
I mentioned this on the rockman post, the FET's seem to be really touchy to set up why would you bother when you can't get the part and there are much better circuits that are much easier to setup???? You would have to be a masochist to pursue that

But other might have different views
Re buffers;
Yes I use buffers on all my builds,, one only has to look at the schematics of any half decent brand name gear and you will find a buffer at the input.